The correct way to Have a One Night Stand



One Night Stands are really hard to pull off. A lot can go wrong between the first eye contact to the next day phone call. These are the essentials about what you need to know about one night stands:

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Where to Meet Her



Any place which provides liquor and has music: Tavern, Clubs, Lounges, etc.



Sites not to look: Work functions are a giant no-no! Don’t **** where you sleep. Also, a lot of women don’t want to taint their career by giving the office something to gossip about. Dinner parties are too elegant. Family parties are also out of the question, no woman thinks about sexual intercourse when Uncle Tom is sitting right across from her.



Understand the Signs



A girl looking for a casual fling is generally seeking to be discovered. “If I’m trying to hook up that night, I’ll be at the pub making eye contact with a hot guy” says my friend Jenn. Look for ladies who are out to have a blast, who are giggling their ass off, grinding with every guy on the dance floor and making eye contact with everyone. It’s not a sure sign that they’re out to get laid but what’s the harm in making the approach and finding out.



What She is Looking For



Girls want to be chased but when it comes to one-night stands, a vast majority of women play the role of seducer.



Fall Back: Don’t use your tacky pick-up line that you read in Playboy. Be yourself and say something like “Hi, I’m Chris.” A affair is the one time a lady will determine a man by his visual appeal. You don’t have to be pristine, a little suave (charming, comfortable and chic) will go a long way. Show your charming personality along with a dapper attire and eye to eye contact. Hang around the area she’s at, flirt back when she flirts with you but remember to let her take the lead.



What You Are Seeking



Make it clear from the beginning; you’re not looking for a long term partnership. “Be direct with her from the beginning about what you want”. This will write off any thought a girl might have about their one night stand turning into a romance. She’s probably on the same page as you but it’s better to be sure.



The Green Light



When do you find out when all signs are a go? It’s when she recommends (or agrees with you) to leave the current tavern or club you guys are at to go someplace else. It’s probably ideal that you go to the woman's place and not yours. She will be more comfortable and you have the preference of leaving before the sun comes up.



Make the move: You are now at second base about to be at third. Small talk will kill the moment. A couple compliments is the way to go. Tell her that she’s delightful and spectacular. Now it’s time to make the move. “I love it when he gets very near to me and pauses, then we both come in for the make out” says Jenn. Let the undressing and sex start! Make it a night to remember and keep it wrapped up: use a condom.



When to Head out



Be direct and tell her that you had a wonderful time. Don't say that “you’ll call her” or “maybe we can see each other again” if it isn’t genuine. If you want to always keep her in your **** friend list, ask her for her email address. The next day, send her an email saying that you had a amazing time last night and if she every wants to do it once more to contact you. If you find out she’s a loony, you can always get rid of your email address.

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